YOUR LIFE will not and can not change if you don’t believe that you are responsible for what you do, for what you think and for what you choose. There are a lot of people who are waiting for things to change without doing anything to make a change. Some even believe that God will help them to do it…while God has already done His part and is ‘waiting’ for them to take their step in faith.
There are a few habits that can keep someone in a environment they don’t really want to stay in. These habits can even keep them from achieving their goals and dreams. If you know what you want and also believe that you can achieve it, you will have to overcome these habits. Let’s take a look at these habits for a minute…
1. BLAMING OTHERS (habit no. 1)
People who blame others are people who enjoy playing the game called “Pointing Your Finger”. Their goal is to point at as much people as possible. By doing this they keep themselves out of the spot lights and therefore outside the position called “responsible”.
You can blame others for your problems as much as you want but it will not help you in any way. What you are proving is that you are not confident enough to help yourself and not confident enough to trust God.
People who enjoy blaming others for their problems or circumstances are people who blame the economy, the government, the stock market, their business-model, their employer, their employees, their managers, the post, their husband, their partner, their friends, this world, God and even their parents. They always blame someone or something else but never themselves.
2. JUSTIFICATION (habit no. 2)
People who justify their circumstances are people who say that something “isn’t that bad at all”. They also say that something is good the way it is because, according to them, “there are worst things” than that’. Imagine that they will even say things like: “It doesn’t matter that I don’t have enough money every month, as long as I am healthy and happy”.
Justifying is not a wise thing to do when it comes to moving forward in life or achieving your God-given dreams. If all the areas of your life were not that important then God wouldn’t have promised a good life ~ in abundance ~ and He wouldn’t have given His promise for health, wealth, happiness, success and much much more.
3. COMPLAINING (habit no. 3)
Research has shown that what you focus on will expand. So, the worst thing you can do is to constantly complain about something you are not happy with. When you look at the people who complain a lot you will see that they are not really happy and also not very successful. The reason for that also has to do with the fact that they are using their mouth to complain too much instead of using it to call forth good and positive things in their lives.
The best thing you can do is to refuse to complain about anything!
As you can see it all starts with you and it all ends with you. The person who is fully responsible for everything in your life is the person who is reading this article right now. That person is YOU!