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Be Disciplined In 6-Steps

Because I know that it is not always easy to discipline yourself, I decided to share some easy steps with you to help you get there as quick as you can. By following these steps you are allowing yourself to grow in this area.

1. Define Your Purpose
In which area of your business would you like to become more disciplined? Just choose one. Be clear about what it is you would like to stop doing or what it is you want to start doing regularly.

2. Find Role Models
Do you know someone who is disciplined in this area? It doesn’t have to be someone you know personally. It can be someone who is alive or dead. The point is to think of some people who you believe had control in this area. This step shows you that if they can do it, you can do it too.

3. See The Success
What are the benefits of becoming disciplined in this area? Make a list of all the (good) things you will feel, see, smell, taste, touch, have and do once you are strong in this area. Knowing this will inspire you to work hard(er).

4. Consider The Danger Zones
Because you are not used to being disciplined in this area it will be challenging for you sometimes. You will start off very good and strongly but before you know it you will feel tempted to go back to your old habits or stop doing your best. This is not strange. What will help you is to make a list, before you start, of all the potential situations, people and things that may cause you to fall or stop…and then make a list of how you will handle them.

5. Decide In Advance
Decide in advance what it is you need to do to accomplish the goal you have set in step 1. This step is about knowing exactly what to do and deciding to do it, no matter what! This is very powerful because it is not about how you feel. It is about realizing that your goal is worth the investment.

6. Have A Support Team
Think of someone you respect to help you become disciplined in this area. Find a person who will be strong enough to hold you accountable for the decisions you have made. Keep in contact with this person every week or every two weeks. This will force you to do what you say you will do.

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3 Easy Ways To Start Taking Responsibility

1. Do A Reality-Check
Sit down with a pen and paper and write down what is REALLY going on in your business (or life). Make a list of the things that are bothering you because they are not the way you want them to be.

For example: It can be the amount of income you have, the clients you are working with, the person who is helping you with your admin or maybe the business partner you have. In your personal life it can be anything from your your health to your home environment.

 

 

2. Choose The Most Simple Step Forward
You realize that things are not the way you desire them to be but because they are happening in your life at the moment you have to find a simple way to deal with them so it doesn’t bother you as much as it does. My suggestion is to step away from it emotionally by choosing to do something positive that only effects you.

For example: reduce the time you spend with those clients or business partners, bring a slight increase in your prices. In your personal life it can be anything from taking a 30 min walk (starting tomorrow) to drinking more green tea (losing weight) to painting one wall in your favorite color this week.

 

3. Respond To Positive Things Around You
In my book ‘7 Steps To Your Calling’ I go deeper into this but for now I want to inspire you to keep your eyes open when you take the two steps I just shared with you. When you make a simple but positive shift in your mindset or in your actions it will effect the world around you.

In fact, when you open up yourself to be real and honest about the way your life is at the moment and you decide to take responsibility to change it, you will have to bring yourself in a positive mode so you can stay motivated and inspired. Whenever something good happens around you act upon it because positive energy creates more positive energy.

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